On Sunday, March 3, 2019, I ran my first (and only) full marathon.
Having a handful of small races, a few half marathons, and even a Ragnar Trail Relay under my belt and faithfully following a training program did not fully prepare me for the physical and emotional roller coaster ahead of me.
Rather than subjecting you to all the arm-flailing details, I’ll share a quick summary of the run itself, a few vignettes from the course, and some concluding thoughts.
The race route was actually gorgeous. We started in Downtown Stuart along the scenic waterfront, ran out to Sewell’s Point, up to the Jensen Beach Causeway, across the Indian River Lagoon to Hutchison Island, down A1A to Stuart Beach, over the Ernest Lyons Bridge down to the southern tip of Sewell’s Point, back the Evans Crary Bridge to Steele Point, passing back through Stuart on East Ocean to the Finish Line.
At the Start: My sister Bethany and good friend Jodee ensured that I arrived on time at the start, fully awake, hydrated, and stretched out. They even stayed to cheer me through the first few miles!
Miles 1-9: I hung with a pace group set to finish in 5 hours and 45 minutes. Unfortunately, once the sun rose fully, the course heated up quickly. With the temps hitting 87F and the heat index somewhat higher, I decided to drop into high/low intervals.
Miles 10-17: I ran high/low intervals. The 5:45 pace group left me behind, and the 6-hour pace group and most of the other turtle runners passed me as well. I was still feeling good, though, and moving at an acceptable clip.
Mile 17: Physical and mental breakdown on the Ernest Lyons Bridge (more on that below).
Miles 17-22: Shambling runs, uneven intervals, lots of shuffling and some fast walks with my hands on my hips. Heat and misery.
Miles 22-24: Mostly walking with a few little bursts of hopeful jogging.
Miles 25-26.2: Jogging again, because walking across the finish line was unacceptable.
Finish line: Joy and relief! Friends and family! Cold limeade! Ringing the PR Bell!
Vignettes from the Course
High points included lining up at the back of the pack with the rest of the slow-moving party crowd, coming upon a trio of older ladies mid-morning in lawn chairs offering runners scoops of ice to shove down their tops, and arriving at the finish line to discover friends and family holding out hope after the crowds had left and the crew had started shutting things down. (“If they took down the PR bell, we were going to riot!”)
Low points included soaring temperatures, my body pulling a bathroom emergency fakeout in Mile 16, and crying at the top of the Ernest Lyons Bridge in Mile 17.
I believe those two events are related.
By the time I hit Mile 16, I was running out on Hutchison Island, alone without a pace group.
I’d already rounded that bend near the Elliot Museum and was headed toward the double bridges to the mainland. I was running high/low intervals in a hot, airless section with no shade when my body informed me that we needed to find a Porta Potty, pronto!
Feeling pressure to deal with the situation and worried that further running might force the issue, I fell into a fast walk. While the stomach cramping faded within a few minutes, I’d lost my rhythm and drive right before I hit the Ernest Lyons Bridge.
I started up the bridge at a walk, continuing to lose steam as I ascended. The sun pressed down, the air thickened in my lungs, and the impossibility of finishing the race overwhelmed me just as my body gave out. My hands and feet began tingling. Black splotches danced across my line of sight. I swayed on my feet.
In short, I’d hit the wall.
I remember shuffling one foot in front of the other and actually grabbing the railing running between me and the sheer drop to the Intracoastal Waterway, hauling myself hand over hand toward the Olympic heights of the summit.
Just before the apex of the bridge, I stumbled upon a bench. Don’t do it, I told myself, even as I fell onto it.
I rolled onto my back, sticking my hands and feet in the air like a little bug. Tears leaked from the corners of my eyes, trailing toward my salt-matted hairline.
The moment had arrived. This was do or die, and I was fairly certain my body was making the decision for me.
Why postpone the inevitable? If I was going to quit, I should quit now and get it over with. No use shuffling any more miles. I should just surrender.
I dropped my hands and feet, leaving them to dangle over the sides of the bench. I opened my eyes, staring into the impossible blue of the sky. The black spots were gone.
On the bridge beside me, cars and trucks whizzed by. Even if I was going to quit, I couldn’t quit at the top of the bridge. It was too dangerous for anyone to park, for one thing; for another, I’d either have to roll over the cement barricade or be hauled over it. That sounded harder than walking down the bridge itself. Much better to walk down and call someone at the bottom.
After all, if I was quitting, I had plenty of time.
Fortunately, I could feel my hands and feet again. I rolled off the bench, stumbled to a standing position, inched over the tallest point of the bridge, and started down the other side.
A blessedly cool breeze lifted before me, and suddenly I felt fresh life. While I couldn’t run yet, hope rose. Maybe I wouldn’t have to quit after all.
A local man out for a walk up the bridge (it was an open course) passed me going the opposite direction. His gaze flicked to my runner’s bib (on which was my number and my first name), and he said, “Ruth! Your friend’s waiting for you!”
I didn’t have the energy to ask him what he meant, let alone puzzle it out for myself. A minute later, another passerby said something similar. “Ruth! You’re almost there! I saw your sign!” I broke into a shuffle.
There, at the bottom of the bridge, was my friend Alissa, holding a huge sign with my name on it, dancing like a crazy person. When she saw me coming, she ran straight to me, bearing iced coffee.
“You’ve hit the wall,” she told me. “So that’s over with.” I don’t remember what else she said, but I remember that only after talking to her did I feel that I might actually finish the race.
The week before the marathon, I’d somewhat jokingly selected Psalm 118:17 as the theme verse for my race: “I shall not die, but I shall live, and recount the deeds of the Lord.”
That verse not only proved true but also was an actual comfort as I found myself shuffling through the dreadful miles between my breakdown and the end.
At one point, I was trapped in a sunny stretch along Sewell’s Point feeling like I might die at any moment.
Suddenly, drifting from the open windows of a residential home, I heard the strains of the worship song “O Praise the Name (Anástasis),” a song our church family has been focusing on in this season approaching Resurrection Sunday.
Themes of pain, death, and inevitable resurrection overwhelmed me. I would not die. I would live and recount the deeds of the Lord.
I didn’t have the energy to sing or the spare moisture to cry, but I raised a hand and mentally sang along.
Then on the third at break of dawn,
The Son of Heaven rose again.
O trampled death where is your sting?
The angels roar for Christ the King!
O praise the name of the Lord our God
O praise His name forever more
For endless days we will sing Your praise
Oh Lord, oh Lord our God.
Even now, I’m unable to put into words what it meant to me, hearing that song in that moment.
Losing steam partway through the race meant that I was one of the final finishers. While I wasn’t the very last runner on the course, I was among the final dozen or so to trickle in. The police were literally taking down barricades and reopening intersections as I shambled through them.
Still, my family and friends (and random passers-by) cheered me across the line as if I were one of the top finishers.
And you know what? I’m not embarrassed by that.
I spent six months pushing myself to train, struggled through physical, emotional, and mental battles, and in the end, I finished.
Running a marathon was an audacious goal for someone like me. Considering my age, temperament, and physical capabilities, it was truly an awesome challenge.
While I feel absolutely no drive to try a full marathon again, I have zero regrets about signing up, enduring the training, and suffering through the experience (although during the race itself, I couldn’t help but think the whole thing had been a huge mistake).
All I can tell you is this: if I can run a marathon, anyone can do anything.
Make a goal, set practical steps, and work toward fulfilling it.
Though you’re worried you might fail, share your journey with friends, family, and loved ones because you will definitely fail without them.
10 thoughts on “Worst Parade Ever: Surviving My First (and Only) Marathon”
This is awesome! You did it!! (this is like me getting my dissertation finished and earning my PhD story- not pretty- but we got it done and no one can take that away)
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YES – so much overlap between the disciplnes of running and writing!
Many of your thoughts are shared by other marathon finishers. My first one, having paid the stupid amount of money to do a Disney race meant that I had very well better get that medal. I sat down around mile 19 and looked behind me to see if I could wait for the buses to pick me up. The marathon pushes you mentally as much or more than it does physically. Great job training for and finishing this marathon!! Congratulations!
Also, watching other people finish marathons chokes me up because I remember the emotional swirl that it is. Sometimes, it is what makes me sign up for more. 🤦🏽♀️
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I’m so relieved to hear from other runners who had those sit-down-and-quit moments. It makes me feel like part of a club! A very sweaty, very sore club. LOL
I could’ve cheered when I read the part about your friend waiting at the bottom of the bridge. And I can only imagine what a moment that was when you heard that song. Just when we’re at our lowest point, encouragement is right around the bend. God is good. Congratulations on finishing!
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YES! Thank you, Emily. I thought I was done for, but God had gone ahead and lined up just what I needed.
To be fair I’m super hormonal right now, but this did make me cry. Support of our friends and family means so so much, doesn’t it! And God is faithful in each even of our lives.
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YES! Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read, Charlotte!
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*in each moment. wow, can’t type, I guess…
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